Dharmic Threads…
Years ago, before I’d come close to discovering tantra, people often confided in me about their love and sex lives…
It was a common thread in my experience. Even in my teenage era, grown adults would surprise themselves by spilling the beans on their most intimate secrets in my presence.
I had no desire to teach - and knew relatively little of the world - but what apparently came naturally to me was making people feel comfortable enough to unravel the threads of their relational trials and tribulations.
At that time I had little personal experience to offer -
So I did what I was doing with astrology - which I’ve studied unofficially for over 20 years -
I collected data. I observed, listened, and remembered the patterns I gleaned, among and between the stars & the stories.
And yet, I often knew exactly what to say...
At 19 I took LSD for the first time, & was shocked at the cosmic wisdom I could access - as if the akashic records themselves had flung open their doors to me…
In my mid 20s, a shaman told me that one day I’d have a presence online talking about s*x & s*xuality, and I was genuinely baffled - and slightly horrified - by the notion.
It was far from my conscious radar…
And yet, the thread of empowering women had always been there.
Coaching women into a more empowered, sovereign and spiritual perspective was second nature to me -
I did it for friends and contemporaries, strangers and colleagues.
I never, ever thought about making a business out of it -
It was simply a natural way for me to relate to other humans (hello south node in Sag)
Meanwhile my lust for life, spiritual training and freedom led me all over the world, and into a series of relatively radical initiations on the tantric / shamanic path…
When I moved to Costa Rica in 2021, I met a woman who’d given a Ted Talk on masculine / feminine dynamics, and accepted her invitation to have tea with her…
When I arrived at her house, she was deep in a toxic relationship crisis, and I coached her for 4 hours straight, without even being offered a glass of water.
Cycling home in the dark, depleted and hungry, I decided it was time to build a professional structure around what had always flowed through me like water.
I realised that, while it had always elevated me to help people, it was also worthy of exchange.
In hindsight, it’s easy to see how the threads of my dharmic path were weaving, long before I consciously gave them form.
Dharma is not one thing. It is who you are, in action.
It’s the Holy Fire that calls you forward - that activates the mission that moves you to help humanity evolve.
That initiates you through circumstances, interactions - and seemingly random encounters - into understanding the medicine you carry, and the codes that you came to deliver…
It’s not always obvious, but it’s always there.
Weaving, preparing and priming you…
Until the day you realise that you have flowered.
You are ripe.
The fruits are here, and that people both need and want them.
In the Holy Fire MistressHeart, you are held in a temple of truth
A space to explore and unearth the dharmic threads weaving through your world.
The obvious, and the invisible.
The practical - and the apparently impossible.
Whether you’re already leading or still discovering your path to sovereignty, this temple is a sanctuary for your soul to breathe, your heart to lead, and your natural purpose to emerge.
Without pushing, forcing, or sacrificing the magic, pleasure or play that lubricates your life.
If you feel the fire, that’s your invitation.
I recommend you trust it. Follow it.
You won’t believe where it’s gonna take you ;)